The video discusses the issue of codependency and the importance of self-acceptance.

What is your codependency here that doesn't allow you to feel safe, to feel secure in your own self, that you need this person to accept you so you're going to do whatever you can to get this person to accept you, even if that means losing weight? Because, yes, that gets you started, but the goal is, can we actually start where you are and help you move to the place that you truly need to be? So I don't reject people because I don't agree with what their why, but it's helping them understand, let's start where you are and get you to where you need to be.